Mom’s Retirement

My mother retired this summer after 30+ years in education. I shared this message at her retirement reception. Proud daughter.

Dear Mom,
Long before you had the title of “grandma,” waaay before you were called “mom,” and even before you became a wife…  You were a principal.

It’s a role you’ve relished for more than 30 years, and yet, it’s been so much more than just a role or a title to you. Mom, this has been your calling. You have lived your purpose in the center of God’s will for you, in this unique capacity that maximizes your many gifts. A natural leader with smarts and a sparkling personality to match. A warm, caring spirit. A love for learning. A talent for helping people “be their best.” The amazing ability to make each child you encounter feel special and valuable. These beautiful, interlocking pieces of your identity have made you an excellent principal, and a truly exceptional mother.

Growing up, I always knew my mom was good at her job and that it was important to her. But at home, job number one was being the best mom. When I went to work after college, I gained a much better appreciation for her experience, skill and work ethic. And now that I am a working mom, I am simply in awe of how she balanced work and home life so gracefully. I never felt the stress come home. She was always at my concerts and conferences in Fremont, even when she had her own here in Gretna. Mom, I believe you are a better mother–and now I am a better mother–because of your vibrant example of a life committed to serving others. I’ve learned so much from you already, and when it comes to being a woman, mother and a professional, I continue to learn from the best. 

To be fair, there are a few more ingredients that have been key to your success. And they tie back to your pre-principal life. You see, the only title you’ve had longer than “principal” is “daughter.” As Gene Gorman’s daughter, you learned what hard work and humble service looked like. As Sarah Gorman’s daughter, you learned to cherish children, to be patient with them, and, yes, even spoil them once in a while. And when you combine a servant’s heart with a teacher’s heart, well, you have my mother’s heart.

There’s only one thing that can fuel this kind of labor for so many years, and that’s love. Love transforms labor into a legacy. Mom has loved you all, her colleagues and dear friends, her students and families. And you have loved her right back. And here’s the great thing about a career founded on strong relationships: while the “work” eventually ends, the relationships endure. 

Mom, thank you for bringing so much joy and encouragement into all of our lives. Through your example, you’ve inspired many of us to be our best… more than you know. And this wonderful story of yours is far from over. A new story is just beginning, and it’s starring you and written by God, so you know it’s going to be good.

Gene and Sarah cheered you on as you started your career, and I believe they’re cheering you on today as you finish this season. I know they’d join Dad and I, and all of us, in saying “Well done, good and faithful servant.” We love you.